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Counselling Tips on How to Choose a Relationship Counsellor

Choosing the right counsellor for your counselling sessions is very important for your improvement as a person. What you want is a counsellor who can give you positive advice, who can lift up your spirit, and who can help you deal with your relationship problem. And, not all counsellors can give these help. Only skilled therapists have the ability to give the assistance that you are looking for. Here are some tips to consider when looking for a counsellor.

  • Follow your intuition.

If it is your first time meeting the counsellor, observe your feelings. Do you feel comfortable with her? Do you think you can get along with her immediately? The answers for these questions should be YES. You should feel comfortable with her so that you can fully open up your feelings to her. If you feel awkward, and you cannot tell all your problems and feelings to her, then, your counselling sessions may not succeed.

  • Choose a counsellor who has the right qualifications.

The counsellor should be able to help you in your relationship problems such as marriage problems or family problems. In order to be able to do this, she should have the proper qualification and expertise on the specific field that you wanted her help. For example, if what you are looking for is a marriage counsellor, then the person should have enough qualifications such as educational backgrounds and trainings in marriage counselling. That way, you will be ensured that she is capable enough to help you with your problems.

  • Consider the counselling fees.

The fees should be considered as well. It should be reasonable enough for you and for the counsellor. It should not be too cheap for the counsellor and not should be too expensive for you. You can talk this matter with the counsellor so that you can agree with the payment. That way, you will not encounter financial problems later on.