How To Have A Healthy Sex Life

Sex, according to a famous US comedian, is that “nasty, filthy and disgusting behavior that we save for the ones we love”.

If you are committed to a long-term relationship right now, or you’ve been married for a couple of years already, the rules and definitions with regard to sex sometimes change, or gets altered. Sex is actually one of the factors that can help add to a healthy and strong marriage or consensual relationship. Below are a number of helpful suggestions on how to have a healthy sex life.

Don’t Be Afraid To Say What’s On Your Mind

Couples should never falter, or feel shy, when it comes to telling their partners how much they love them. For example, if you see your wife wearing a sexy office dress, tell her how sexy she is, and how you’d love to get your hands on her. This example is just one of the many simple ways of expressing your desire for sexual intimacy and love to your spouse or partner. It would also be nice if couples plan a quick, and eventful weekend getaway. For example, you’re heading to the beach with your spouse, try acting like the two of you just met. And if one of your partners is far away from you, call him/her and have an erotic phone conversation. By the time you, or your spouse, gets home, the two of you would probably be so greedy for each other.

Create Your Own Intimate Rituals And Activities

One of the keys to a healthy sex life is for couples to be very “innovative”. For instance, couples can create unique intimacy rituals, which goes beyond simply undressing and having sex. The two of you could have a hot bath before going to bed, or have a special unannounced dinner on regular Tuesday or Wednesday nights. The man or woman could also try massaging his or her partner’s feet and legs while watching TV or DVD. According to relationship experts, the key to enhanced sexual intimacy is consistency. Make sure that these are not only done once, but over and over again, until they become like a secret password which initiates the deep-seated and intimate affection couples have for each other. Couples could even act out their favorite fantasies, as well as act like that they just met. The guy or girl can also call his or her partner, and ask him/her out on a date.

Discover The Great Outdoors Together

One way for strengthening the couples intimate bonds, is by going out together and enjoying a wide array of recreational and sporting activities. The two could go for a long country walk, or go skiing and biking, as well stroll along the beach. Such outdoor activities will allow couples to see each other in a different light, and will also create a sense of physical vitality that readily translates into other forms of intimacy. It would also be very nice to tell your partner at least two or three things about him/her that you truly like.